Need Help Adding and Msgin on Madden 2010 for PS3

Hi All,

I'm a madden newbie i just got madden 2010 last night. I have a few question i need answered and it would be greatlyy appreciated. After playing some random games i was able to receive msgs during the game from opposing players saying nice catch or nice run, but i didn't know how to respond. ALso after the games i was challenged to play them again but i cant figure out how since they're not on my buddy list. So i have 2 questions

FOr Madden 2010 on the PS3
How do i?
1. Msg people during games??
2. How do i add after games people i just played so i can rechallenge them again??

ANy help with this would really be appreciated.

you can message people during games by pressing the PS button and going to something that's like "Recently People Met". there, their PSN will show up, you press and you can go to create message. also, after games, you can do the same process except press "Add as a Friend". a word of advice though, be careful when navigating on the Xross menu during gameplay, your PS3 can freeze up on you if you press too many buttons consecutively. has happened to me before, lost some wins

thanks bro!! appreciate the help.